Karen L. Rancourt, Ph.D., Archives
Ask Dr. Gramma Karen Columns
Posted on GRANDMagazine.com
Jan / Feb 2014
When advising becomes interfering
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140102_v3/#/19
Mar / Apr 2014
Squabbling grandparents beware!
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140304_v3/#/19
Mar / Apr 2014
How would you feel if one of your daughters had an advanced or terminal disease and didn’t tell you about it?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140506_v3/index.php#/22
Jul / Aug 2014
How grandparents can set ground rules
http://www.grandmagazine.com/news/2014/07/grandparents-can-set-ground-rules/
Sep / Oct 2014
Making grandparent-grandchildren road trips special
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140910_v3/index.php#/20
Nov / Dec 2014
Ever considered snorkeling the ideal holiday surprise?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/201401112_v3/#/20
Jan / Feb 2015
Even preschoolers can teach you a few new tricks
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150102_v3/index.php#/25
Mar / Apr 2015
Avoiding emotional minefields when grown children divorce
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150304_v3/index.php#/24
May / June 2015
Grandparents, put your affairs in order
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150506_v3/index.php#/19
July/August 2015
What not to say to your grandchildren
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150708_v3/index.php#/21
September/October 2015
Preserving family history and memory matters
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150910_v3/#/21
November/December 2015
Grandparents, consider the gift of a “gap year”
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20151112_v3/index.php#/21
January/February 2016
Are you too old for this?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160102_v3_drm/index.php#/7
March/April 2016
To Skype or not to Skype
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160304_v3/index.php#/36
Named as one of the best 13 books for new grandparents:
http://www.grandmagazine.com/news/2016/05/13-best-books-new-grandparents/
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160506_v3_drm/#/12
May/June 2016
Staying fit as a fiddle for the grandkids
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160506_v3/index.php#/37
July/August 2016
When a spouse passes, what you say is important
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160708_v3/index.php#/35
September/October 2016
Are your grandkids in your will?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20160910_v3/#/35
November/December 2016
The book of love . . . and life
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20161112_v3/index.php#/34
January/February 2017
The Secrets We Keep . . . Or Don’t
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20170102/index.php#/32
March/April 2017
Presidential Election Aftermath in the Family
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20170304/index.php#/34
Posted May 18, 2017
13 Reasons Why: To Watch, or Not To Watch A Show About Teen Suicide
http://www.grandmagazine.com/2017/05/13-reasons-watch-not-watch-a-show-about-teen-suicide/
May/June 2017
Keep In Contact With Your Grandchildren
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20170506/#/35
July/August 2017
Is Your Welcome Mat Out?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20170708/index.php#/26
September/October 2017
When Grandparents Feel Guilty
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20170910/index.php#/29
October 4, 2017
How to talk with your grandchildren about these senseless tragedies
http://www.grandmagazine.com/2017/10/talk-tragedies-children/
November/December 2017
After I’m gone, take out the garbage
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20171112/index.php#/18
November/December 2017
The Big Question: Is Santa Claus Real?
http://www.grandmagazine.com/2017/12/grandparents-know-santa/
January/February 2018
Does This Make Me a Bad Grandma?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20180102/index.php#/16
March/April 2018
The “chicks” and “chiclets” who play together
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20180304_drm/index.php#/16
May/June 2018
Before the grandchildren come we get ready for fun
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20180506/index.php#/28
July/August 2018
Make family road trips a blast!
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20180708/index.php#/28
September/October 2018
Should children attend a grandparent’s funeral?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20180910/index.php#/30
November/December 2018
Holiday visits with grandparents who live in a condo
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20181112_drm/index.php#/30
January/February 2019
When the Grandchildren’s visits go awry
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20190102/index.php#/30 or https://www.grandmagazine.com/2019/01/when-the-grandchildrens-visits/
March/April 2019
How to build a co-grandparenting team
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20190304/index.php#/30
May/June 2019
How grandparents can help their college-bound grandchildren
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20190506/index.php#/31
July/August 2019
Should grandparents share their views on sex, alcohol, and drugs?
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20190708/index.php#/31
September/October 2019
Grandparents Lament: “Those Damn Travel Sports Teams!”
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20190910/index.php#/10
November/December 2019
A new year, and I hereby resolve …
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20191112/index.php#/9
Spring 2020
Grandparents, It May Be Time to Recalculate
https://www.grandmagazine.com/2020/04/grandparents-it-may-be-time-to-recalculate/
Summer 2020
Disagreements About the Use of a Ventilator to Treat Covid-19
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/2020summer/index.php#/p/12
Fall 2020
There ARE Benefits to Kids Playing Video Games
https://www.grandmagazine.com/2020/10/benefits-to-playing-video-games/
Winter 2020
The key to successful parent-grandparent relationships in two words
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/2021winter/index.php#/p/12
This GRANDmom Explains “Yeah but…”
https://www.grandmagazine.com/2021/01/this-grandmom-explains-yeah-but
Spring 2021
The effects of 2020 on relationships
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/2021spring/index.php#/p/13
Gloria’s Ten Commandments for Elders Living with Their Grown Children
https://www.grandmagazine.com/2021/05/a-mothers-day-tribute-to-gloria/
Summer Issue
Advice for grandparents vacationing with extended family
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/2021summer/index.php#/
Fall Issue
How grandparents can be a front-line resouce for college-age grandchildren
https://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/2021fall/index.php#/p/29
“This Grandma Never Thought She’d be Firing a Gun!”
https://www.grandmagazine.com/2021/08/this-grandma-never-thought-shed-be-firing-a-gun/