Karen L. Rancourt, Ph.D., Archives
Ask Dr. Gramma Karen Columns
Posted on Mommybites.com
2011
Introducing Dr. Gramma Karen
http://www.babybites.com/08/31/ask-gramma-kare/
9/14/11
How do I Deal with an Unsupportive Mother-in-Law?
http://www.babybites.com/09/14/ask-dr-gramma-karen-how-do-i-deal-with-an-unsupportive-mother-in-law/
9/21/11
Advice on Giving Unsolicited Advice
http://www.babybites.com/09/21/ask-dr-gramma-karen-advice-on-giving-unsolicited-advice/
9/28/11
Don’t Call Me Grandma
http://www.babybites.com/09/28/ask-dr-gramma-karen-don%e2%80%99t-call-me-grandma/
10/5/11
Readers’ Comments on Advice on Giving Unsolicited Advice
10/12/11
What Can I do About “Helicopter” Grandmothers? (Part I)
10/19/11
What Can I do About “Helicopter” Grandmothers? (Part II)
10/26/11
Staying at the Grandparents’ Is Not So Easy
11/2/11
Readers’ Comments on Helicopter Grandmothers
11/9/11
I Don’t Want My Mother-in-Law to Baby Sit
11/16/11
Dreading the Family Thanksgiving Dinner
http://www.babybites.com/11/16/ask-dr-gramma-karen-dreading-the-family-thanksgiving-dinner/
11/30/11
Taking the Stress Out of Gift Giving
http://www.babybites.com/11/30/ask-dr-gramma-karen-taking-the-stress-out-of-gift-giving/
12/7/11
Grandmother Sees a Potential Speech Problem, Parents Don’t Agree
12/15/11
My Grandson Is No Longer Loving Towards Me
http://www.babybites.com/12/15/ask-dr-gramma-karen-my-grandson-is-no-longer-loving-towards-me/
2012
1/5/12
My Granddaughter Wants a Cellphone, but Her Mom Says No
1/12/12
I Distrust My Stepmother’s Dog
http://www.babybites.com/01/12/ask-dr-gramma-karen-i-distrust-my-stepmother%e2%80%99s-dog/
1/19/12
My Granddaughter’s Secret
http://www.babybites.com/01/19/ask-dr-gramma-karen-my-granddaughter%e2%80%99s-secret/
1/26/12
My Grandson Repeated Something Hurtful My Daughter Said
2/2/12
I Dread Mealtimes with my Sister’s Kids
http://www.babybites.com/02/02/ask-dr-gramma-karen-i-dread-mealtimes-with-my-sister%e2%80%99s-kids/
2/9/12
Readers Respond to My Granddaughter’s Secret
http://www.babybites.com/02/09/readers%e2%80%99-respond-to-my-granddaughter%e2%80%99s-secret/
2/16/12
How to Tell My Children Their Grandmother Has Cancer
http://www.babybites.com/02/16/how-to-tell-my-children-their-grandmother-has-cancer/
2/23/12
Grandmother Doesn’t Want to Babysit
3/1/12
My Grandson’s Mother is a Poor Role Model
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/my-grandsons-mother-is-a-poor-role-model/
3/8/12
My Son’s Inheritance Is at Risk
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/my-sons-inheritance-is-at-risk/
3/15/12
My Mother-in-Law Is a Liar
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/my-mother-in-law-is-a-liar/
4/5/12
Grandmother’s Hurtful Behavior towards Grandson
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/grandmothers-hurtful-behavior-towards-grandson/
4/12/12
Readers’ Follow-Up Comments
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/readers-follow-up-comments/
4/19/12
How to Handle My Spoiled Niece and Nephew
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/how-to-handle-my-spoiled-niece-and-nephew/
4/26/12
Family Cruise Includes Unpleasant Brother-in-Law
http://mommybites.com/col1/preschool/family-cruise-includes-unpleasant-brother-in-law/
5/3/12
My Daughter-in-Law Excludes My Husband and Me
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/my-daughter-in-law-excludes-my-husband-and-me/
5/10/12
Heated Discussions at Work about Kids’ Homework
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/heated-discussions-at-work-about-kids-homework/
5/17/12
Condo Living and Grandchildren Who Visit
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/condo-living-and-grandchildren-who-visit/
5/24/12
Granddaughter’s Embarrassing Style of Dress
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/granddaughters-embarrassing-style-of-dress/
6/7/12
Update on Grandmother’s Hurtful Behavior towards Grandson
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/update-on-grandmothers-hurtful-behavior-towards-grandson/
6/21/12
The Dueling Grandmothers
http://mommybites.com/col1/prenatal/the-dueling-grandmothers/
7/5/12
Follow Up to Heated Discussions at Work about Kids’ Homework
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/follow-up-to-heated-discussions-at-work-about-kids-homework/
7/19/12
I Think My Husband’s Stepmother Is Illiterate
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/i-think-my-husbands-stepmother-is-illiterate/
8/2/12
Grandmother Has Limited Access to Her Grandson
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/grandmother-has-limited-access-to-her-grandson/
8/16/12
Mom Feels Guilty about a School Decision She Made
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/mom-feels-guilty-about-school-decision-she-made/
8/30/12
New Neighbors Are Proselytizing
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/new-neighbors-are-proselytizing/
9/11/12
Remembering 9/11:
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/remembering-911/
9/25/12
Young Parents Deal with Legal Guardianship
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/young-parents-deal-with-legal-guardianship/
10/9/12
Son Marries While Grandmother is Dying
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/son-marries-while-grandmother-is-dying/
10/23/12
Readers’ Tips for De-stressing Thanksgiving
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/readers-tips-for-de-stressing-thanksgiving-2/
11/13/12
Grandparents and Grandchildren Help Us Smile
http://mommybites.com/col1/preschool/grandparents-and-grandchildren-help-us-smile/
11/27/12
Grandparents Grapple With Question: Is Santa Claus Real?
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/grandparents-grapple-santa-claus-real/
12/11/12
Guidelines for Giving and Receiving Gifts
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/guidelines-for-gifts/
2013
1/8/13
Readers Respond to My Holiday Columns
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/respond-to-holiday-columns/
1/22/13
Our Son and His Family Are Temporarily Living with Us
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/son-living-with-us/
2/5/13
Grandfather Is Guilt-Ridden About Grandson’s Accident
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/guilt-ridden-about-accident/
2/19/13
Grandparents Worry That Wealth Will Spoil Their Grandchildren
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/grandparents-worry-wealth/
3/5/13
Readers Respond to Guilt-Ridden Grandfather
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/respond-guilt-ridden-grandfather/
3/19/13
Request to Grandparents: Get Your Affairs in Order
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/get-your-affairs-in-order/
4/2/13
The Squabbling Grandparents
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/the-squabbling-grandparents/
4/16/13
Mother Not Wanted at Memorial Service
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/ask-dr-gramma-karen-mother-not-wanted-at-memorial-service/
4/30/13
Son-in-Law Threatens to Keep Grandchildren from Mother-in-Law
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/son-in-law-threatens-mother-in-law/
5/14/13
Everything Begins with a Story
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/everything-begins-with-a-story/
5/28/13
Helping a Grandchild Deal with the Death of a Pet
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/helping-grandchild-with-death-of-pet/
6/11/13
Mother Wants Money from Grandparents for Kids’ Camp
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/mother-wants-money-from-grandparents-for-kids%e2%80%99-camp/
6/25/13
Nonreligious Parents Face Problems Raising Their Children
7/9/13
Readers’ Comments on “Mother Wants Money from Grandparents for Kids’ Camp”
7/23/13
Grandmother Is Offended by Granddaughter’s Swearing
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/grandmother-offended-by-granddaughter-swearing-2/
9/10/13
Philanthropic Grandparents Can Make a Difference
9/24/13
In-laws Reject the Idea of an Adopted Grandchild
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/in-laws-reject-the-idea-of-an-adopted-grandchild
10/8/13
We Worry About Our Kids Visiting Homes Where There Are Firearms
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/worry-about-kids-visiting-homes-with-firearms/
10/22/13
Mother-in-Law Bad-Mouths Her Daughter-in-Law
11/5/13
My Father-in-Law’s Gun Hobbies Are Distressing
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/my-father-in-laws-gun-hobbies-are-distressing/
11/19/13
Change Traditions and Lower Your Holiday Dinner Stress
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/change-traditions-and-lower-your-holiday-dinner-stress/
12/10/13
The Secret Word to Avoid Spoiling Your Kids
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-the-secret-word-to-avoid-spoiling-your-kids/
2014
1/7/14
Grandfather Wants to Keep Advanced Disease from His Family
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/grandfather-wants-keep-advanced-disease-family/
1/21/14
Grandmother Shows Favoritism
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandmother-shows-favoritism/
2/4/14
Advice for Interacting with Adolescents
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/ask-dr-gramma-karen-advice-interacting-adolescents/
2/8/14
Grandmother Denied Access to Grandson
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/grandmother-denied-access/
3/4/14
Grandmother Is Too Generous
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandmother-generous/
3/18/14
Daughter-in-Law Is Upset with Father-in-Law’s Behavior
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/ask-dr-gramma-karen-daughter-law-upset-father-laws-behavior/
4/1/14
Grandparents Are Not Sure How to Talk about Tragedies with Grandchildren
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/grandparents-talk-tragedies/
4/15/14
Readers’ Comments about Father-in-Law’s Questionable Behavior
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/readers-comments-father-laws-questionable-behavior/
4/29/14
Overprotective Daughter-in-Law Limits Grandparents’ Access
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/overprotective-daughter-law-limits-grandparents-access/
5/13/14
Grandson Is Not Paying Back Grandfather’s Loan
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandson-paying-back-grandfathers-loan/
5/27/14
Daughter-in-Law Is Not Sure about Expressing Certain Feelings
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/ask-dr-gramma-karen-daughter-law-sure-expressing-certain-feelings/
6/10/14
Grandparents Want to Set Some Ground Rules
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandparents-want-set-ground-rules/
6/24/14
Not Sure How to Handle a Bullying Situation
http://mommybites.com/col2/nanny/ask-dr-gramma-karen-sure-handle-bullying-situation/
7/8/14
Talking with Teenagers about Grandfather’s Illness
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/talking-teenagers-grandfathers-illness/
7/22/14
Lifelong Memories: Grandparent-Grandchildren Road Trips
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/grandparent-grandchildren-road-trips/
8/5/14
Mother-in-Law Feels Rejected by Daughter-in-Law
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/mother-law-feels-rejected-daughter-law/
8/22/14
Grandparenting Is a Team Effort
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/grandparenting-team-effort/
9/2/14
A Grandmother’s Letter to Her Children
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/grandmothers-letter-grandchildren/
9/16/14
Daughter-in-Law Is Obsessed with Getting Pregnant
http://mommybites.com/col1/prenatal/dr-gramma-karen-daughter-law-obsessed-getting-pregnant/
9/30/14
Grandmother Questions Parents Staying Together
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/grandmother-questions-parents-staying-together/
10/14/14
Grandmother Worries about Other Grandmother’s favoritism
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandmothering-favoritism-worries/
10/28/14
My Step-Grandchildren Lack Discipline
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/ask-dr-gramma-karen-step-grandchildren-lack-discipline/
11/11/14
Gift Ideas for the Grandchildren
http://mommybites.com/col1/toddler/gift-ideas-grandchildren/
11/25/14
How Not to Say the Wrong Thing
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/say-wrong-thing/
12/9/14
Family Members Disagree on Vaccinations
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/family-disagree-vaccinations/
12/23/14
Discover Your Unique Gifts
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/discover-unique-gifts/
2015
1/6/15
When Grandchildren Ask About a Family Secret
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/grandchildren-ask-family-secret/
1/20/15
Grandparents Question Participation Trophies
http://mommybites.com/col1/preschool/grandparents-question-participation-trophies/
2/3/15
Future Father-in-Law is “Too Friendly”
http://mommybites.com/col2/moms/future-father-law-friendly/
2/17/15
Grandchildren Teaching Grandparents
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/grandchildren-teaching-grandparents/
3/3/15
Granddaughter Talks about Monsters and Death
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/granddaughter-talks-monsters/
3/17/15
Grandparents and Their Grown Children’s Divorce
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/ask-dr-gramma-karen-grandparents-grown-childrens-divorce/
3/31/15
Concern about a Young Boy Who Has No Friends
http://mommybites.com/col1/preschool/young-boy-no-friends/
4/14/15
Young Granddaughter Dresses Sexy
http://mommybites.com/col1/baby/young-granddaughter-dresses-sexy/
4/28/15
Step-Grandmother Discusses Her Favoritism
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/step-grandmother-discusses-favoritism/
5/12/15
Granddaughter Wants to Share Bedroom with Her Boyfriend
http://mommybites.com/col2/grandparents/granddaughter-wants-share-bedroom-boyfriend/
5/26/15
Readers’ Comments, “Young Granddaughter Dresses Sexy”
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/readers-comments-granddaughter-dresses-sexy/
6/9/15
Granddaughter Is a Habitual Liar
http://mommybites.com/col2/big-kid/granddaughter-habitual-liar/
Ask Dr. Gramma Karen Columns
Posted on GRANDMagazine.com
Jan / Feb 2014
When advising becomes interfering
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140102_v3/#/19
Mar / Apr 2014
Squabbling grandparents beware!
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140304_v3/#/19
Mar / Apr 2014
How would you feel if one of your daughters had an advanced or terminal disease and didn’t tell you about it?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140506_v3/index.php#/22
Jul / Aug 2014
How grandparents can set ground rules
http://www.grandmagazine.com/news/2014/07/grandparents-can-set-ground-rules/
Sep / Oct 2014
Making grandparent-grandchildren road trips special
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20140910_v3/index.php#/20
Nov / Dec 2014
Ever considered snorkeling the ideal holiday surprise?
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/201401112_v3/#/20
Jan / Feb 2015
Even preschoolers can teach you a few new tricks
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150102_v3/index.php#/25
Mar / Apr 2015
Avoiding emotional minefields when grown children divorce
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150304_v3/index.php#/24
May / June 2015
Grandparents, put your affairs in order
http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/grand/20150506_v3/index.php#/19